In this week’s episode, we have an open and frank discussion with Betzalel Rothstein, family mediator and founder of the divorce support network, Toldos. Sharing his own experiences in divorce and remarriage with a blended family, Betzalel opens up about his struggles with balancing consistency and flexibility in raising his children and gets vulnerable in sharing mistakes he’s made and learned from along the way. We cover a wide range of important topics such as a dad’s role in raising children in divided homes, learning empathy, the value of seeing things through the eyes of a child, and much more. Betzalel is clearly a growth-oriented man. We thoroughly enjoyed his candor and wisdom, and are confident you will as well! Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact

Episode References:

Toldos Website: https://ourtoldos.com

Shalom Family Mediation: https://shalomfamilymediation.com

Reach out to Betzalel:

Email: betzalel@shalomfamilymediation.com

Phone: +1646.493.9783

Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/shalommediation⁠

Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/shalommediation⁠

LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/b-m-r⁠ & ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/company/shalom-family-mediation⁠

YouTube: ⁠https://youtube.com/@shalomfamilymediation1998

In this week’s episode, we sit down with relationship coach, podcaster, and author of “Kickass Husband, Winning at Life, Marriage & Sex“, Matthew P. Hoffman. Happily married for 28 years with 3 loving children, Matthew shares some of his secret sauce to building happiness in a relationship including the top 3; the importance of communication, commitment, and conflict resolution. In addition, Matthew shares his insights into why so many relationships fall by the waist side and what you can do to avoid that from happening in your current or next relationship. We also get into hot-button topics such as sex and intimacy, steering clear of situations that can compromise your marriage, disclosure between partners, and much more. So if you’re looking to kickass in your life, this is one episode you won’t want to miss! Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact

Episode References:

Book: Kickass Husband: Winning at Life, Marriage & Sex, by Matthew P. Hoffman & Chris Cambas, LMFT, https://matthewphoffman.com/product/kickass-husband-book-promotion/

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Reach out to Matthew:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Kickasscouplesnation

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kickasscouplesnation

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/kickass-couples-nation

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kickasscouples

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kickasscouplesnation

Web: https://matthewphoffman.com

In this week’s episode, we sit down with the author, coach, and dad par-excellence Joe Templin. Joe brings an abundance of enthusiasm and energy, breaking down his daily activity habits literally to the minute, which he also describes in his groundbreaking book, “Everyday Excellence“. Joe, a divorced dad of 3 children, discusses his intentionality surrounding his parenting including raising 2 of 3 children with special needs and how he gives all his kids the tools to succeed in life. We also get into Joe’s ultra marathoning, his expertise in martial arts, how he coaches men to overcome triggers, and much more. As you listen, you may think Joe’s on fast forward, but you’ll see, that’s just Joe embracing life full speed ahead! If you want to learn how to motivate yourself to be excellent every single day, this is one episode you won’t want to miss! Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact

Episode References:

Book: Every Day Excellence: A Daily Guide to Growing, by Joe Templin, https://everyday-excellence.com/excellence-shop/

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Book: Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits and Break Bad Ones, By James Clear, https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/0593189647

Reach out to Joe:

Twitter: https://twitter.com/EDEwithJoe

TikTok: Https://tiktok.com/@JRRTOneRing

Web: https://everyday-excellence.com

In this week’s episode, we sit down with Arnie Goldfein. A dad and grandfather, twice divorced and recovering alcoholic. Sober for over 37 years and counting, Arnie brings an abundance of experience and wisdom to the podcast. Through honest introspection and vulnerability, Arnie discusses what led him to alcoholism, his recovery from addiction, and the challenges he’s faced in his business and romantic relationships. He also shares his views on sexuality, religion, spirituality, and much more. For those close to someone struggling with addiction and sobriety, or perhaps struggling themselves, this is one episode you will not want to miss! Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact

Episode References:

Movie: Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex * But Were Afraid to Ask, by Woody Allen, https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0068555
Book: The Silent Patient, By Alex Michaelides, https://www.amazon.com/-/he/Alex-Michaelides/dp/1250230780

Reach out to Arnie:

Phone: +19177767574

In this week’s episode, we sit down with Aaron Jeter. Aaron is a social studies teacher and author of the acclaimed children’s book, Weekends and Summers With Dad. Aaron gets candid with us about his journey through divorce, maintaining strong relationships with his children, focusing on self-growth through education and martial arts, dating post-divorce, and of course, the therapeutic process of writing a children’s book centering around divorced dads. Deep and articulate, Aaron left us inspired to be the best version of ourselves, to stay strong and healthy, and the importance of being active role models as dads. For any dad struggling with life after divorce and adapting to the realities of shared parenting, this is one episode (and book) you will not want to miss! Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact

Episode References:

Book: Weekends and Summer With Dad, by Aaron Jeter, https://store.bookbaby.com/book/weekends-and-summers-with-dad

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Poem: I’d Rather See A Sermon, by Edgar A. Guest, http://www.inspirationpeak.com/cgi-bin/poetry.cgi?record=110

Book: Let us Make a Man, by 38 authors, https://letusmakeaman.com

Book: Never Fight Again.. Guaranteed!, by David B Hawkins, https://www.amazon.com/Never-Fight-Again-Guaranteed-Groundbreaking/dp/1426773854/

Good:  @JockoPodcastOfficial Full “Good” Clip, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdTMDpizis8

E.A.T: Engage, Ask questions, Trust

Reach out to Aaron:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tweetwithjete

Twitter: https://twitter.com/tweetwithjete

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaron-jeter-43220131

In this week’s episode, we sit down with therapist, Yochanan Pollack. Yochanan’s authentic, warm, and compassionate personality is “chicken soup for the soul” for any man struggling through divorce or any other challenge in life. Having experienced divorce himself and a subsequent remarriage with a blended family, Yochanan was inimitably relatable, and we found ourselves as if we were each sitting in the therapist’s chair as we gained from Yochanan’s wisdom and knowledge. From navigating new relationships to loving and bettering oneself as a man, there are takeaways for everyone in this episode, so sit back and enjoy! Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact

Episode References:

Book: The Primal Scream, by Arthur Janov, https://www.amazon.com/Primal-Scream-Delta-Book/dp/0349118299

Book: Getting the Love You Want, by Harville Hendrix Ph.D. (Author), Helen LaKelly Hunt Ph.D., https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Love-You-Want-Couples/dp/1250310539

Reach out to Yochanan (He does see clients around the globe via Zoom):

Email: yochananpollack@gmail.com

Whatsapp: +972 52-319-8251

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In this week’s episode, we sit down with Brian A. Vandiver. Brian is an attorney from Arkansas whom, after experiencing the challenges facing divorcing men in obtaining custody, took on the system and bettered it! Brian candidly speaks about his experiences facing opposition from lawyers and judges, shares how he worked with non-profit organizations like The Respondent created by Greg Ellis to make a change, and how other states are following suit. Brian is truly inspirational, proving that you need not take it on the chin from the legal system and that you too, can take action and effect change. In addition to Brian’s lobbying efforts, he also provides tips on how to choose a family lawyer, shares how he got through his own divorce, and glows about his happy remarriage and blended family. We also discuss the extreme damage done to men’s mental health which too often results in life-threatening situations. We were proud to host someone as articulate and accomplished as Brian, and we are excited to enlighten and empower you with Brian’s story! Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact

Episode References:

Book: The Respondent, by Greg Ellis, https://www.therespondent.com/products/the-respondent

Children & Parents United: https://www.therespondent.com/pages/charity National Parents Organization: https://www.zenlabsfitness.com

The Father’s Rights Movement: https://tfrm.org

Americans For Equal Shared Parenting: https://afesp.com

Reach out to Brian:

Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/BrianAVandiver1

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brianvandiver

In this week’s episode, we sit down with Joe Bergovoy. Following his divorce in 2016, Joe turned his life around, attending and volunteering for seminars of personal development masters such as Tony Robbins, completing all the world’s marathon majors, and traveling the world.  All the while, Joe raises his 9-year-old daughter as a single dad and enjoys a wonderfully close relationship with her. After helping other divorced men with their challenges, Joe decided to become a coach to help as many men as he can not just survive but rather thrive post-divorce just as he has.  We had a great time with Joe, his fun personality and enthusiasm for life are infectious. Joe’s “take control of your life” attitude was extremely motivating and inspiring to us, as it will be for you! Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact

Episode References:

Book: Recover From Your Divorce In 4 Steps, by Yoel Farkas, https://www.amazon.com/Recover-Your-Divorce-Steps-No-Fluff/dp/0578844362

Sweat App: https://www.sweat.com/

Couch to 5k App: https://www.zenlabsfitness.com/

The Running Tour Guide YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Isratrack

Bengineer YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@bengineertube

Reach out to Joe: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jb_coolmossfirerunner

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/joebergovoy

Website (Launching February 2023): JoeBergovoy.com

In this week’s episode, we sit down with well-known and successful Canadian family lawyer, Barry Nussbaum. In this candid discussion, Barry gives us a glimpse into the types of legal issues that arise in divorce, his take on the family law system, and his views on equality between men and women. He explains how emotions often get in the way of sensible decision-making, the role of a good advocate in divorce proceedings, and much more. This episode is packed with exciting debates between Ben, Yoel, and Barry. Barry doesn’t pull any punches in describing his experiences and philosophies gleaned from his many years in the trenches. This episode contains perhaps our most thought-provoking discussion to date, and you definitely won’t want to miss it! NOTE: THIS EPISODE IS NOT MEANT TO GIVE LEGAL ADVICE. Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact

Episode References:

Jordan Peterson Clip: https://youtube.com/shorts/2-1uN4r2ecs

Book: Living Untethered by Michael A. Singer, https://www.amazon.com/Living-Untethered-Beyond-Human-Predicament/dp/1648480934

Reach out to Barry: https://nussbaumlaw.ca/

In this week’s episode, we sit down with special forces veteran of the Australian military, Damian Andrews. Damian takes us on a journey through rediscovering a relationship with his own dad, and his mission to raise his 14-year-old son into a kind and responsible young man. Damian continues discussing the importance of liking oneself, navigating relationships, and much more. With boundless wit and energy, Damian offers an abundance of insights and takeaways into how to improve not only your life, but also the lives of your children and the world at large! Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact 

Episode References:

Book: Be The Black Hole by Damian Andrews, https://damianandrews.com/book/

Book: 10 Really Dumb Mistakes That Smart Couples Make by Rabbi Ben Tzion Shafier, https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/dp/1680251767 

Damian’s Organization: https://Shair.care 

Reach out to Damian Andrews: 

Website: https://damianandrews.com

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/damianandrews

Shair.care Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/shair-care-podcast/id1645676744